Be Your Kids Own Role Model

By: Jason Cunningham (01/10/2006)

  In my opinion, there are too much parents in America that are not stepping up to the plate. Why do we expect other people to be our kids' role models? In a world where some people swear that this a Godless society, why not be number one in your children's lives?

 I am sure that we can discuss why some kids have behavior issues or do not succeed in school.  The foundation of anyone begins and starts at home. It does not mean that your children will always be "angels" in life. As human beings, we are prone to making mistakes; however as each of us progress in life, those early lessons will be our moral compass. I often refer to myself as the "prodigal son." Yet, I can say that 99% of my bad habits are gone, because of what my parents instilled in me, and they are still my role models.

 Some parents say that their kids seem to worship people on the TV. They would prefer to watch TV instead of spending time with you. There are some parents who use their TV as the dependable babysitter. Kids know when you do not want to be bothered with them. I guess someone else will show them love and affection? It may be a rap artist on the tube or worse case scenario, the drug man on the corner. As a parent you have to take a stand against anything that may negatively influence your child. You signed on the dotted line once your child was born. I understand things are harder because of the rising costs to raise a child and the necessity to work more hours to survive. Turn the TV off and read a book or help your child with their homework.

 Remember Denzel Washington, Ben Affleck, nor Lebron James will probably not be at your child's graduation from high school or college. All of your sacrifices throughout the years, should be incentive for you to be your child's favorite role model. These children are your legacy, so it is your duty to be the leader of your household. You sternness today will be seem as love when your child is old enough to realize why you do certain things. Remember to be your own kids role model.

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