Do you really know if you are in love? Maybe you have to tell yourself that your boyfriend or girlfriend is amazingly wonderful? It could be just a feeling of euphoria that overcomes you when you her or his name, or you can smell that scent a mile away.

Love is an imperfect science, however it must be studied. Nobody quite knows when they will be smitten by the bug. One thing we do know is that if you keeping living there is a 99.99% chance of you falling in love. It is bound to happen at least one time regardless of how you try to avoid it.

The question of the hour is whether we influence love entering our hearts and mind? I think that over time we develop a kind of ionic bond to this person which leads to deeper, unavoidable feelings. Any kind of real love probably takes time to develop unlike lust. Yet spending more and more time with someone you like can speed up the process of love coming on strong. When your thoughts includes happy moments with this person, then of course you can convince yourself of being in love.

Each of us will struggle with love at some point in our lifetime. Hopefully you will find the right person in the process. You have to take an active role of falling in love, and I do not believe this will be a passive moment in time. The decisions you make influence whether you will fall in love. You can shut that person out of your life, or let the shining light into this journey of dark paths and deception we call living. Regardless of how love has treated you in the past, we all still believe in love.

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