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I Don't Love You
Anymore
By: Jason Cunningham (3/18/2005)
The hardest
thing to get people who want to end a relationship to do, is not to leave the
situation without dodging the other person. Getting revenge on the person you are
about to break up is hurtful, and unproductive in a society that already has a
problem with commitment. We should not be aiming to cause further psychological
harm, therefore just move on with your life without noise.
Plenty of people
experience a crushing blow by being told, "I don't love you anymore." These are
hateful words that do not inspire a healthy outlook at the world, in most cases.
I turn to good logic, and now express a need for this phrase to removed
from all of our memories.
Imagine
being on the receiving end of a "I don't love you anymore" speech. I already
know some people who will read this article, in the past or the present, have
been down that road. You feel as small as a ant, and there is nothing that can
be said to make you feel better. Often an individual may reflect on their life,
cry, and feel empty about the current situation. Giving yourself time to heal,
is the only way you for your next relationship to be truly positive.
Words of hatred
such as "I don't love you anymore" are not used to help the other person. These
statements rip holes in the heart and mind of that person who must endure those harsh
words. Too many of us have heard this, but in order for us to further
civilization, let us all refrain from using those types of speeches. No matter your current feelings
towards that individual, learn to keep it to yourself; if the words which you
want to say are not positive. One of the lessons that I have learned in the life
process, is to focus on one's own faults instead of correcting others.
Personally, I really doubt you ever stop loving a person, but you can fall out
of love with that individual!
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