Overcoming Dating Rejection
By: Jason Cunningham (10/17/2005)
Has anyone ever told you no when you
asked for their phone number or just to sit down and talk? Well if you are like
me, it has happened on more than one occasion. However unless you keep trying,
then your latest dating rejection will keep you away from the love seeking
marketplace.
You walk into a room, and see an
angelic figure across the way. What do you in this situation? You could play the
shy role. Smile at her, be nervous, and say nothing as she walks right out of
your life, or take that chance and say something thought provoking. Say hi,
besides it is a warm greeting, but also it gives you enough chance to see if she
is wearing a wedding ring, or childish bracelets, which can be an indication of
an underage child. Okay, you establish that she is an adult, what's next J?
So you talk to her for a while, and after five minutes of spilling your guts,
she says," I got to go, nice meeting you." Unless she reaches in her purse for a
pen, then you can kiss those minutes of your life goodbye. If the pen stays put
then this is a subtle rejection, yet this is a woman of quality, because she did
not try to destroy your ego. Cheer up, it is not the end of the world, and
counseling is not required in this instance.
I know we haven't got to the Eve of
destruction scenario. Building up your confidence before you get hit with a ton
of bricks is good for your health. Sometimes we talk about the art of dating,
but preparing for the Doomsday's rollover coaster can be quite a task. This time
you say hi to lovely woman on the outside, but what is going on the inside?
Before you finish the greeting a drink, a cup, or a unwanted phrase enters your
airway. So why be upset? Well maybe because the music just stop playing and
everyone is laughing at you. Do not let it get you down, for help is on its way
if you are patient. Remember dating is a numbers game, the more you do of it,
the closer you are to finding that special someone.
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