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You Don't Understand Me!
By Jason Cunningham (4/27/2005)
Lack of communication seems to be a dangerous
pitfall for many dating relationships. Generally, I believe the "you don't
understand me" syndrome is a problem of both individuals. My reasoning comes
from the fact that some men and women use past dating relationships as a
barometer for what should be known about them, as times goes on. Unfortunately
most of us are not mind readers, and therefore the person not expressing their
expectations can end up disappointed.
Each person while dating one another should attempt
to learn as much as possible about the other individual. Otherwise you are
probably wasting time and money on a unprofitable venture. Communication
is the key to our everyday life whether on the job, in the sky, or at your place
of worship. It is important to have meaningful dialogue with those you wish to
get to know better. In most cases, there is not a need for a "you don't
understand me speech" to materialize. We already have enough barriers in this
world, at least remove them from dating relationships.
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